The internet’s going bonkers with Valentine’s Day gift ideas and ways to splurge, but I’m here to tell you that you don’t need to do a single thing: zip, zero, nada. Maybe it’s because I’m part of the “God when” crew, or maybe it’s just common sense – have you seen the state of the economy lately? If you can afford to drop more than 5k on a gift, RIB should probably investigate you. But I digress. The point is, that you can totally skip the madness of emptying your pockets and hunting for the perfect gift while still keeping your relationship on solid ground. Intrigued? Hear me out.
Say No to Gifts from Your Partner

At the forefront of the game plan: steer clear of receiving any gifts from your partner in the days leading up to Valentine’s Day. Scratch that – you shouldn’t have accepted gifts since the year started. Why? Because then you’ll be expected to reciprocate. If you’ve already slipped up on this step, well, I can’t do much for you. But for those who haven’t, congratulations, at least you know the way forward.
Create Problems Out Of The Silliest Things

It’s a no-brainer, really, and it’s an age-old trick that’s been getting results for years – and for a good reason. The logic is simple: I mean, if we’re already fighting, why should I be shelling out my hard-earned cash on you, right? Need some quick examples? How about asking, “Would you still love me if I were a worm?” Anything less than a loud and resounding “yes” spells trouble! Or try this one on for size: “Who gets the front seat in the car – me or your mom?” You catch my drift. Your motto in this game: “I don’t want peace; I want problems only.”
Time To Play The Busy Card

Calling all frugal life experts! We’ve hit the jackpot – February 14 lands right in the middle of the workweek, and that’s our ticket to playing the busy card. But, and there’s always a but, we need to start laying the groundwork. Get home late today, and before you even sit down, start griping about the insanely heavy workload this month. Repeat this morning, afternoon, and evening, three times a week, and voilà – watch your partner’s expectations for quality time or gifts go right out the window. You can thank me later.
Love Goes Beyond Material Gifts

Forget about material gifts – they’ll never truly capture the depth of your love for your partner. After all these years together, you know that gift-giving is just a small part of showing you care. This Valentine’s Day, why not switch things up? Skip the typical chocolates, roses, and cheesy gifts, and instead, make a vow to keep nurturing your relationship just like you’ve been doing all along. And hey, remember what they say about vanity – it’s a sin or something like that.
Everyday is Valentine’s Day

Who needs Valentine’s Day when every day feels like one? If you’re only showing love and appreciation to your significant other one day a year, you won’t last long. You both make it a priority to shower each other with love, honor, and respect every single day. No wonder Valentine’s Day doesn’t feel like a big deal to you – you’re already living in a constant state of love and appreciation!
Disclaimer: These tips are for the girlies. You shouldn’t feel pressured to spend money – after all, you’re just a girl. If you’re a guy, well, you know the drill – do what men do and spend that money.