In Rwanda, April holds special significance as it marks Kwibuka, a time for reflection, unity, and remembrance. During this period, we commemorate the 1994 Genocide against the Tutsi,
honoring those who lost their lives. It serves as a poignant reminder of the importance of unity and reconciliation for everyone.
One important part of Kwibuka is the vigil nights and the Walk to Remember. During these events, people gather to pay tribute to the victims by recalling their lives, their hopes for the
future, and the journeys they took toward their tragic fate.
As we get ready for these events, choosing appropriate attire shows respect and solidarity with those who suffered and still suffer. You can choose to make Kwibuka colors: grey, white and black, recurring theme of your outfits.
When thinking about what to wear for the commemoration nights, Kwibuka events, memorial visits and Walk to Remember, it’s important to remember how important the occasion is. It’s
a time for reflection and respect, so your attire should reflect that by being modest, neat, and solemn.
Dress modestly and respectfully, avoiding flashy outfits. Men can opt for a simple shirt and jeans, while women can choose a modest dress, skirt with a blouse, or pants and a shirt. During commemoration events many Rwandan women prefer traditional attire “umushanana” while men may wear a special fabric like kitenge as a shirt, reflecting unity and cultural connection.
For events involving walking, such as the Walk to Remember, it’s important to prioritize comfort and practicality. Choose clothes and shoes that allow easy movement and provide protection, especially if walking long distances in various weather conditions.
Closed-toe shoes with good support are recommended, and consider wearing clothes that shield you from the sun if the event is outdoors. During the commemoration period in Rwanda, it’s important to avoid wearing clothes with bright patterns or loud colors, as this could distract
from the solemnity of the event.
Originally, purple was the significant color representing remembrance and mourning in Rwanda. However, when it was noticed that some Rwandans were expressing their grief by putting wood ashes on their heads, the National Commission for the Fight against Genocide (CNLG) decided to change the commemoration color to grey.
Adding some grey to your outfit can serve as a reminder of the lives lost and the significance of honoring their memory.
Additionally, black is a common color worn during mourning and many other cultures. Wearing black shows support for those who are grieving and demonstrates respect for the occasion.
As Rwanda prepares to remember the lives lost in the 1994 genocide against the Tutsi, what you wear to commemorate is a personal choice. Whether you choose to wear traditional clothes, muted colors, or just dress respectfully, the key is to approach the occasion with reverence and seriousness.
Most importantly, your attire should show your commitment to honoring those who died and supporting survivors and the Rwandan community. Remembering is not just about what you wear; it’s a symbol of our shared humanity and the strength of the human spirit.
