During the week of commemorating the 1994 Genocide against the Tutsi in Rwanda, which took over one million lives in just 100 days, the Minister for National Unity and Civic Engagement in 2023 outlined seven prohibited activities.
The prohibited activities encompass mass celebrations, weddings, and other marriage ceremonies, as well as organized sports competitions (except for individual sports). Additionally, playing music unrelated to the commemoration in public venues like
bars, restaurants, barber shops, studios, and bus stations is also restricted.
Other prohibited activities include betting games, projecting football matches, and entertainment events such as concerts, comedy nights, movie screenings, and theatrical performances that are not related to the commemoration. This prompts contemplation about actions to support the cause during this week, and whether there are actions to avoid.
SENS Magazine offers a guide of 10 Dos and Don’ts for the commemoration period and beyond.
The Dos
Commemorate: Reflecting on the country’s past during this commemoration period is
crucial. It’s an opportunity to delve into the events of the 1994 Genocide against Tutsi in Rwanda. Commemoration takes various forms, accessible to everyone. Whether
through online articles, documentaries, or attending seminars and commemoration events, individuals can engage and learn about the tragic events.
However, it’s important to approach external content with caution, conducting background research and seeking firsthand survivor narratives, especially for younger generations.
Support trauma victims: The commemoration period can be especially difficult for survivors,
marked by emotional pain and distress. During this time, it’s essential to be vigilant for signs of trauma among individuals, such as crying in public or exhibiting other distress behaviors.
If you encounter someone in distress, there are various ways you can offer assistance, depending on the severity of the situation. Providing comfort, offering a listening
ear, or directing them to support services nearby are all meaningful ways to help.
In more severe cases where immediate medical attention is required, don’t hesitate to call emergency services at 112. Your swift action can make a difference in supporting those grappling with trauma during this sensitive period of remembrance.
Participate in community activities: Many survivors of the 1994 Genocide against Tutsi continue to endure challenging living conditions. However, there are meaningful ways to support them. You can donate directly to survivors or contribute through organisations dedicated to assisting this demographic.
Additionally, donating information, such as photos or videos depicting the genocide or honoring those who lost their lives, can be a valuable form of support.
Engaging in community projects, such as building houses for survivors or participating in Kwibuka seminars, Walk to Remember events, and Commemoration evenings, offer opportunities to make a positive impact within your local community while honoring the memory of those affected by the genocide.
Combat misinformation: During this period, genocide denial and misinformation are
prevalent both online and in real life. If you encounter such content and possess knowledge on the topic, it’s crucial to respond with accurate information. By actively countering
misinformation, you contribute to combating genocide denial and ensuring the truth is upheld.
Report remains of victims: To this day, the remains of individuals killed during the genocide still lie undiscovered. Despite ongoing efforts to ensure proper burial to honor and respect their families, this issue persists.
If you have any information regarding the whereabouts of these remains, it is crucial to report it to the local authorities, Rwanda Investigation Bureau, or police. They can investigate the matter and determine the necessary actions to be taken.
The Don’ts;
Do not organize non-commemorative events: During the commemoration period, it is imperative that all events related to entertainment, sports, or leisure be avoided.
Additionally, betting shops should close, especially considering that sporting events are taking place elsewhere in the world.
Learn and use the right terminology: Do not use language or engage in conversations that perpetuate genocide ideology or ethnic divisionism. These phrases often carry hurtful meanings and are used to deny or distort the reality of the genocide, fueling hatred and division within communities.
The government emphasizes national unity, stressing that all Rwandans share a common identity and rejecting the divisive tactics historically imposed by colonial powers.
Adhere to Official guidelines: During the week of Kwibuka, communities hold commemoration events. It is recommended to close businesses and participate in these events or, at the very least, return home to prevent traffic congestion.
Do not dress inappropriately for commemoration: The designated colors for commemoration are black, grey, or white. While there’s no strict mandate to wear these colors, adhering to the dress code fosters a culture of respect and remembrance.
Do not perpetuate misinformation: Spreading misinformation about the 1994 Genocide
against the Tutsi is detrimental. It perpetuates genocide denial and inflicts further pain on survivors. As responsible citizens, it’s crucial to uphold the truth, continue to educate yourself and avoid contributing to misinformation.
Do not take flowers or other items from memorial sites: It’s crucial to refrain from taking flowers or items such as photos, clothing, or jewelry from commemoration tombstones and memorials during Kwibuka or ever. These objects hold value and carry profound meaning
for survivors and their families. Taking them, even if they appear easily accessible, is disrespectful and undermines the purpose of Kwibuka.
Items displayed within genocide memorials are intended for preservation within the memorial premises. It’s essential to honor the memory of those lost by leaving these items undisturbed and respecting the sanctity of the commemoration sites.
