Lately, social media has become a mine for everything. In fact, young people have turned to TikTok for answers they usually had to Google. This week, while scrolling through TikTok, we came across profound marriage advice from married women towards single ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The incepting question from TikToker @Thais radiant_ng <\/strong>stated: \u201cMarried women, what\u2019s your greatest regret about marriage? Advise the single girls. It could be anything.” The users were quick to comment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Having scrolled, found and picked the most interesting replies, pluck your seats and enjoy a good read.<\/p>\n\n\n\n “Never Marry a Narcissist”<\/em>\u00a0came among the most liked responses, with 15.3k reactions. The English dictionary defines narcissism as an act of self-centeredness and being short on empathy. Psychiatrists term the act as a disorder (Narcissistic Personality Disorder), defining it as\u00a0a legitimate mental health condition that requires diagnosis by a mental health\u00a0specialist. So dear, if that person who keeps you up all night is either self-centred, lacks empathy or has both, run for your life!<\/p>\n\n\n\n “You better come first”\u00a0<\/em> TikToker,\u00a0<\/em>Glam by Cee<\/em><\/strong>,<\/em>\u00a0says you always come first, remember!\u00a0Don\u2019t\u00a0think\u00a0so? Well, this response here had over 26,000 likes. To further echo it deep into our minds were comments such as one from\u00a0@Lean<\/strong>\u00a0on my shoulders,<\/strong>\u00a0who asked how they should like the comment more than once.<\/p>\n\n\n\n “They have to be\u00a0God-fearing”\u00a0<\/em> For the non-believers, you may want to reconsider your decision after reading this.\u00a0Genny Ri\u00a0<\/strong>advises singles to\u00a0\u201cMarry a man who is grounded in the lord.\u00a0If\u00a0he does not look up to God, he\u00a0can\u2019t\u00a0lead you.\u201d\u00a0Surprisingly,\u00a0she\u2019s\u00a0not the only one with the same thinking – 24.300 other users feel the same way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n “Always go for the calmer\u00a0ones”<\/em> Did you chase someone away because they seemed\u00a0boring? How far did they run? You might need to call them back. A comment from Deni says,\u00a0\u201cThat boring but peaceful guy, marry him, sis.\u00a0You\u2019ll\u00a0get older and calmer,\u00a0and\u00a0you\u2019ll\u00a0desire peace over everything else.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n “Never stay in the same house with your\u00a0husband\u2019s\u00a0family.”\u00a0<\/em>Not our words. We\u00a0don’t\u00a0want men coming at us. We are just messengers of\u00a0@hubby\u2019s\u00a0pride<\/strong>\u00a0and 14.2000 other users.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cMarry a kind man<\/em>, even\u00a0when they are mad, they will still treat and correct you without abuse,\u201d\u00a0advised\u00a0@brainysandra<\/strong>.\u00a0Isn\u2019t\u00a0she right? With all the soaring cases of domestic violence in homes and divorce or death as a result, someone had to remind the singles to triple-check their lists of\u00a0men’s\u00a0qualities they root for. Again, please\u00a0don\u2019t\u00a0stomp our offices, nor make our numbers busy. We are just parcels delivering packages from married women to single women.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n A user we have decided to grant anonymity says:\u00a0\u201cTreat his family exactly how he treats yours. Life is not too hard,\u00a0don\u2019t\u00a0make it.\u201d And for those who want to marry for wealth, rethink sisters,\u00a0PresMonkey\u00a0<\/strong>and 25,300 other users stress you should be financially independent before getting married, and while you are, HIDE IT!<\/p>\n\n\n\n For my Christian sisters, I mean the ones that do things by the book, which may include giving birth to as many children as you can in the name of pro-creation, I have bad news, or maybe they\u2019re not that bad, it will depend on how financially stable you are as a person. Promzy26<\/strong> emphasises, \u201cGive birth to the number of children you can care for independently,\u201d backed up by almost 300,000 others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And finally, for our independent ladies out there, the ones who believe in speaking their minds, and those who are yet to learn, \u201cDon’t get married to someone who makes you rehearse before talking to him about anything. You should be able to say your piece and express your feelings, and he should hear you not just listen,\u201d says lomz&Teko<\/strong> plus 17.1 k others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n While these were entertaining, let us know if we should compile a list of the actual regrets from married women to single ladies. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Lately, social media has become a mine for everything. In fact, young people have turned to TikTok for answers they usually had to Google. This week, while scrolling through TikTok, we came across profound marriage advice from married women towards single ladies. 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